30th Sept Live - How to have the difficult conversations we avoid

The Things We Don't Say Out Loud is hurting us. 

A 90-minute live call on why you keep swallowing what you actually need to say

-and how to say it in a way that finally lands and pleasing to Allah

  • Details:

  • Live 90-minute workshop

  • Sept 30th ā€¢ 11:30 a.m. EST/ 4:30 BST

  • 7-day WhatsApp support to practice ONE difficult conversation in real time

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Let me draw a vivid image for you

Say your husband has barely supported you emotionally, you're at your limit of carrying it alone.

You don't want to keep mothering him through it or complaining about what he isn't giving you.

But how do you say it in a way that actually lands?

Where he really gets why this matters to you?

Or that time your MIL keeps doing that one (of many, lol) annoying thing you can't take anymore, and you want to draw a boundary.

How do you say it, and stick to it (this is the hard part), in a way that she actually takes your words seriously, instead of:

  1. Passively dismissing you

  2. Complaining to her son about how disrespectful you are.

  3. Crying about how she's being treated

Same with the toxic relative.

Or the kid that doesn't listen.

3 reasons what holds us back

  • We don't know how to word what we want clearly. ("You don't listen to me" isn't specific enough.)

  • We're crazy uncomfortable actually having the conversation and sticking to it ā€” because none of our ancestors did it, so somehow it feels wrong.

  • Even when we do say it, we don't know how to say it in a way that lands and actually creates a 1% shift.

I'm going to teach you how to have those difficult conversations in a way that it lands And you don't look like a villain

What we're doing together

  • 90 minutes.

  • 45 minutes of teaching

  • 45 minutes of Q&A ā€” real questions, real situations, not hypotheticals.

  • 7 day WhatsApp support for you to practice it in real time and get support

I'm going to walk you through the exact 7-step framework I use with my own clients to actually name what you need and say it in a way that gets heard ā€” instead of dismissed, snubbed, or turned into a fight.

You don't need more information, you need handholding to do the hard thing

I could just give you a framework and send you on your way.

You'll know the theory on what exactly to say

But you won't say it.

Or it happens and goes sideways after rehersing so much that you chicken out.

#sorrynotsorry šŸ« ā€

You have enough information. What you don't have is someone standing next to you while you actually do the hard thing.

So here's what's different about this one.

For 7 days after the call, everyday in a private group, I'll drop a reminder:

what's coming up for you today,

who are you having this conversation with this week,

how did it go,

what do you need to adjust.

You'll pick ONE conversation.

And instead of doing it alone in your head at 11pm, you'll have women who get it, walking through it with you in real time.

This is the part that actually gets you to do the thing. Not just know it.

Talking to my MIL has gotten so much easier....in the moment it does sound uncomfortable, but it does get through her

And she can't even complain that I am being rude, because I wasn't. I was firm and clear

It's peaked my confidence within me, that it is possible to draw boundary and ask for what you want when its presented right

Sister H

Entrepreneur

I hated becomimg the mother to the Husband. How do you talk and when do you talk in way that he actully listens?

Finally, I've learned what to say and what NOT to say.

He has changed so much because I've changed internally.

Tiny changes. Massive results!!

Sister M

Home Maker

Buried emotions are what's causing your constant "I'm overwhelmed."

You're doing school runs and dawats on nonstop pressure-cooker energy.

And you take it in, little by little, every day, and before you know it, one day it all comes out over some small trigger, and you look like the villain, because "who gets that worked up over something so small?"

But it wasn't a small trigger.

It was days, months, years of pent-up feeling that never got said or boundaried.

And that's just the short-term effect.

Long term?

PCOS.
Dysregulated nervous system.
Passing that dysregulated nervous system on to your kids.
Autopilot life.
Wanting to be left alone constantly because your head is overstimulated.

Physical work doesn't exhaust you the way the emotional circus running in your head all day does.

Come to the workshop, I'll teach you

  • 7 steps on how to have the difficult conversation

  • Why it's uncomfortable. How to move through that discomfort.

  • Where and when to have it. What to say. How to say it.

  • And how to not cave when you're made to look like the villain, and hold steady

But I also know what happens after.

You'll take the framework, think "WOW Kulsum!! this is so true"

Then chicken out, because doing it alone is uncomfortable.

So after the workshop, I'm going to hand-hold you through ONE difficult conversation you'll have with someone in the next 7 days.

Not the hardest one.

Just something that builds your confidence enough to say, "hey, this actually works!! let me go now tell my MIL about the separate accommodation I've been dreaming of." šŸ˜‚

You get the point.

Details

  • Live Workshop Date: September 30th, 9:00 AM PST / 12:00 PM EST / 5:00 PM BST / 8:00 PM GST (Dubai) / 9:30 PM IST

  • Investment: $19 for only workshop and $37 for Workshop + 7 days support to have the conversation

  • Where: Zoom Link will be sent after signing up

1. Sign up for the workshop

2. Check your Email and join the Private WhatsApp group

3. Show up live on 30th September

A few things you may be wondering

  • Is there a replay if I can't make it live? Yes ā€” you'll have 72 hours of replay access after the call.

  • Can I pay with GPay? Yes ā€” message me directly on WhatsApp at [number] and I'll sort it out with you.

  • Will there be Q&A? Yes. 45 minutes of teaching, then 45 minutes of live Q&A where you can bring your actual situation.

  • Will I actually be able to use this in real life? Yes ā€” this is built to work with your husband, your kids, your in-laws, your parents, and the relatives who test your patience the most. Real scripts, real scenarios, not theory.

  • Who is this for? Women who keep swallowing what they need to say instead of saying it ā€” and are tired of it costing them their peace. Women who want to set boundaries and communicate clearly, not to win arguments, but so they can stop bleeding energy into people-pleasing and start conserving it for what actually pleases Allah.

  • Is this a one-time payment? Yes ā€” $37, one time, no recurring charge.

You'll spend most of your life around these same people.

You get to decide whether you keep swallowing what you need to say, or finally learn how to say it in a way that actually lands.

About Kulsum (Your Instructor)

Assalamualaikum šŸ’›

Iā€™m Kulsum, founder of Abundant Muslim.

Certified Islamic Life Coach and mentor to 400+ women

I started this work because I was tired of swinging between extremesā€¦

trying to please everyone and burning out,

or pulling back so much that it didnā€™t feel right either.

There had to be a better way.

Iā€™ve struggled with inconsistency, overthinking, people-pleasing, and burnout.

And the biggest shift came when I realized:

No matter how much you try to please peopleā€¦ itā€™s never enough.

So I stopped building my life around people

and started building it around pleasing Allah.

Everything changed.

That was 5 years back.

Today, I help Muslim women build a Jannah-focused life

across faith, family, and selfā€¦

with clarity, direction, and barakah.

šŸ“© You can reach me at:

Email: salaam@abundantmuslim.com

Instagram: abundant.muslim